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This photo was on Facebook today and it just really resonated me from a personal and professional standpoint.  I seem to be so very busy lately with all sorts of projects, but which ones really speak to me?  I work freelance to be able to have the control over my business and my life.  The kind of freedom that people stuck in their cubicles dream of.  Am I being true to that?

Are you true to yourself?  That’s an interesting question.  It should be the kind of question we all ask ourselves and then have the luxury to be able to live.  Sadly though, many either can’t, choose not to, or even worse, don’t even know that it’s an option.  I fortunately have the option and can, but am I?

The great thing though about life, is you get a choice.  No one can make you do anything.  The “gun to your head” scare tactic…you still have a choice.  “I had no choice” is never an excuse.  And I’ve decided to make some choices to help me get back to being true to myself and what my goals are in my career and my life.

They are not easy choices.  Nothing really truly great in life is an easy choice, an easy decision.  But you know it’s a great choice, a great decision when once you make it and act on it, you feel a release off your shoulders, a spring in your step, an excitement each morning when you awake to face the day ahead.

I have an extremely odd way of making those tough decisions.  I use a Magic 8 Ball.  Yes, that’s right.  I ask my question, swirl the ball around and let it reveal the answer.  BUT, I don’t look at what the Magic 8 Ball says for my answer, I get more philosophical than that.  When I read the answer, I focus on my immediate gut reaction.  Do I feel relieved?  Or do I feel like I was punched in the stomach.  That first, immediate reaction is sub-conscious and can’t be faked.  By honing in on that, it allows me to make those decisions that I know I need to make, but I keep rationalizing both sides of it.

Regardless of the strategies to help make choices, important decisions in your life, they must be made.  Waiting in limbo for too long may make your life stand still, but time is still passing, time that you can not get back.  Time spent worrying, rationalizing, stagnating.

This photo had me thinking about the decisions that I’ve had to make recently that I had been stagnating on.  Those choices that I need to make to get back to who I am, to be true to myself.  Those choices that once made, will drastically improve my personal and professional life because when you are living and working on your purpose, you feel invigorated, alive and most importantly, happy.

How I Found My Purpose in Life…

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Making a Postive Difference in Someone’s Life..

Years ago (heck, might even be close to a decade ago), I did a weekend seminar designed to help you find your purpose in life and then use that purpose to make your dreams come true.  Hokey, I know, but I’m a self-help nut-job.  🙂  After the first full day of classes, I spent the evening really reflecting.  Journaling, just letting whatever come out.  From there I reviewed what I had written when it just hit me…my purpose in life, what truly makes me happy. 

In the workshops, they told us that in order to truly get a honed-in succinct purpose, you had to get it down to 2 or 3 words.  That’s right!  We had to condense our purpose , what we are destined to do in this world, and get it down to 2-3 words.  In that evening’s personal pow-wow, I came up with mine…evoke emotion.  To elaborate slightly, I feel the best, the happiest, the most successful when I am making other people around me happy.  I like to be the cause of people’s happiness.  And it doesn’t have to be anything big or crazy.  Sometimes the littlest things can make someone happy.  Just as a straw can break a camel’s back, so too can straws bring happiness to people (heck, I’m happy everytime I have a straw in my Starbuck’s drink!).. 🙂

I think that’s why I can’t focus my efforts in work at just one genre.  Lots of things that I can do make people happy.  When I put makeup on someone or teach them how to make themselves beautiful, it makes them (and me) happy.  Some of my most favorite customers are the ones that when I finished their look, I couldn’t get the mirror out of their hands.  They were so happy with how they looked, that they actually started tearing up.  I love that!

In my social media and digital communications work, I try to find fun and humor in everything.  With the explosion of tech communication, we are constantly bombarded by news, horror stories, disasters, and drama.  Unfortunately, the drama sells, it goes viral, it’s what clogs up your newsfeed.  And it’s a major downer!   I can’t stand that I scroll and see a natural disaster somewhere, another scroll and I see a man-made disaster, another scroll and children are missing and/or abused, another scroll and there’s racial, sexual, financial hatred.  I can’t stand it.  So I made it my mission to try to change that.  I try to make my posts and articles uplifting, inspiring, and always a tiny bit (ok, some more than just a tiny bit) humorous. 

Sometimes I lose track of it all, but then something happens, someone says something and then I’m reminded of the power I have over other people.  A great friend of mine revealed that she can’t read my posts at work anymore.  I’m serious!  She said it’s because she laughs so crazy, so hysterically that she either spits out whatever she’s eating or drinking all over her charts (she’s a nurse) or she ends up having people run into the room to see if she’s ok.  And I love that!  She’s come to expect that from me and she knows that if she ever needs a pick-me-up, then I’m right there, at any hour of the day, on her smart phone.

I guess you could say that I’m a little bit of a therapist as well.  Taking people when they are having a rough time and making them feel a little bit better, give them a little more hope.  A good friend of mine just lost her job.  That can be devastating in this market especially when you add into the mix that she is a single mother and her car is not working right now.  Being able to help give someone hope and even make them laugh a little helps with the healing process, helps with the moving on.

Now, I’m not going to say that all of this goody, goody, cheerfulness is with me all the time.  I’m human, I have my down times too, just like everyone else.  And there’s times when I simply can’t be that “go-to” gal for my peeps because I’ll have crap going on in my life.  And while I love being there for everyone else’s problems, I do not feel comfortable sharing mine with others.  Weird, I know.  I’m just going to blame it on being an introvert.  Lol.  But I created a separate blog just for me, for my trials and tribulations.  You might say that it’s my therapist.  Twenty minutes typing away and then I’m back to my ole self again.  So, if you need a pick-me-up or a good laugh and I’m not answering, wait 20 minutes.  I just might be dealing with one of my crises.  🙂

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